About Us

Three Lives

We’re Kami, Trent, and Nita — a committed triad living, loving, and healing out loud.

Our relationship isn’t conventional, but it is deeply intentional. What we share is rooted in honesty, sacred connection, and a desire to live in alignment with our highest truths — even when that means breaking from what we were taught, expected, or conditioned to believe.

One Sacred Story

It all started with a long-standing marriage between high school sweethearts. A love that raised six children, a devastating loss, and the unraveling of a faith that once defined everything. Through deep grief and spiritual deconstruction, something cracked open — not to fall apart, but to let more light in.

Infinite Love

What followed was a radical reimagining of what life, love, partnership, and belonging could look like. Eventually, our paths intertwined with a soul who had been walking through her own awakening — and we didn’t just fall in love. We chose love, again and again, in a new and expansive way.

Now, the three of us are building a life that’s rich in emotional integrity, soul-aligned communication, deep healing, and a whole lot of joy.

Welcome Home: A New Way of Living, Loving & Belonging

Hello —
Whether you arrived here by curiosity, courage, or sheer divine accident…
Welcome. You made it.
And we’re so glad you’re here.

We’re Yours, Mine & Ours — a real-life triad of longtime lovers and one deeply cherished partner who’ve chosen to live out loud, love expansively, and build a life that’s rooted in honesty, soul, and sacred disruption.

We’re not here because we’ve got it all figured out.
We’re here because we’ve dared to ask bigger questions.
Because we’ve outgrown the boxes we were told were the only way.
Because we’ve grieved, deconstructed, reimagined — and come out the other side more whole, more awake, and more deeply in love than ever before.

And now, we want to share it.

🌿 Who We Are

We’re partners in every sense of the word — life partners, spiritual seekers, truth tellers, and fierce lovers of growth. Our relationship started as a high school love story, deepened through raising six children, and cracked wide open when life — and loss — asked us to reexamine everything.

That journey led us to explore ethical non-monogamy, deconstruct our inherited beliefs, and embrace a love that’s more rooted in truth than tradition.

We’re not selling perfection here.
We’re offering permission — to feel, to question, to come undone, and to rebuild something wildly authentic.

🔥 What We’re About

This space was born from a deep longing:
To create a refuge for people like us — the ones who’ve walked away from certainty, but not from meaning.
Who’ve outgrown shame, but still carry its scars.
Who are crafting new lives, new relationships, and new spiritual frameworks that actually fit.

Here, we talk about:

Ethical non-monogamy as a sacred practice of self-awareness and trust
Spirituality after deconstruction — not dogma, but embodied, intuitive, expansive soul work
Healing from religious trauma and purity culture
Liberated sexuality, sacred boundaries, and reclaiming the body
Marriage that evolves instead of collapses under pressure
Living, loving, and parenting outside the lines

We’re building a community where nothing is too taboo to talk about and where you never have to choose between being deeply spiritual and deeply human.

🌈 Why This Matters

We’ve been told love has to look one way.
That faith must follow a script.
That marriage is only successful if it fits a mold.
That our desires, questions, and complexities are shameful.

But we believe love is big enough for your questions.
That your body is sacred.
That your relationships can be both healing and hot.
That your intuition is holy.
That joy is resistance.
That truth belongs here.

This is a space for the ones who’ve felt like outsiders.
For the seekers, the sensualists, the deconstructors, the spiritually curious, the fierce-hearted and the quietly brave.

You belong here.

💌 From Our Heart to Yours

This is not a performance.
This is not a brand.
This is our real life — messy, gorgeous, layered, and full of presence.

We’ll share our stories — the vulnerable ones, the funny ones, the sacred ones.
We’ll offer reflections, tools, and coaching resources.
We’ll keep it honest, embodied, and infused with love.

So come as you are.
Stay curious.
And know that whatever brought you here, it’s not by accident.

Welcome to Yours, Mine & Ours.
We’re living out loud.
We’re loving without limits.
And we’re rooting for your most radiant, real, and liberated life.