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Children are endlessly curious. 💭 Why is the sky blue? 💭 Where do babies come from? 💭 Why do birds fly? 💭 Why do people die? 💭 How does that work? Why? Why? Why? A child can ask hundreds of questions in a single day. They aren't embarrassed by what they don't know. In fact, not knowing is what drives them. Their curiosity is wide open. They approach the world with wonder. ✨ But somewhere along the way, many of us stop asking. Why? I've been thinking about that a l

This Friday, something a little surreal happens. A chapter of our lives that we've been living privately for years will suddenly become public. For many people, the show will be about relationships. For others, it will be about ethical non-monogamy. Some will watch out of curiosity. Some will watch because they already have opinions. Some will cheer us on. Some will disagree with everything they see. And honestly? That's okay. Because for me, this story has never really been

There comes a point where silence no longer feels holy. It feels heavy. For most of my life, I carried stories inside me that I didn’t know how to name. Stories about fear disguised as faith. About perfectionism disguised as goodness. About grief that shattered everything I thought I believed about God, suffering, love, and belonging. And honestly? For years, I tried very hard to keep it all contained. I tried to be the good girl. The faithful woman. The safe version of mysel

Years ago, Trent and I started asking a question that quietly changed the direction of our lives. 🌿 Not because we were unhappy. Not because our marriage was broken. Not because we were looking for an escape hatch. But because we’ve always been people willing to ask big questions. 🖤 And one day we found ourselves asking: What does abundance actually look like in marriage? Not survival. Not obligation. Not performance. Not simply staying together. 🌿Abundance.🌿 At the time,

There’s a moment right before something becomes public… where it still feels sacred ✨ That’s where I am right now. Because starting this Friday, commercials will begin airing for a reality show that Trent, Nita, and I are a part of… and the show itself will officially premiere on Friday, May 29th on WE tv 📺 Even writing that feels surreal. But before anything starts circulating —before clips, opinions, or assumptions —I wanted you to hear from me directly 💛 Because what you

There was a girl I used to be. When I look back at old photos now, I hardly recognize her. Not because she wasn’t beautiful. Not because she wasn’t trying. Not because she wasn’t real. I don’t recognize her because she was living inside a world so small, so sealed, so predetermined, that she didn’t even know there was anything beyond it. She did not know she was asleep to herself. She did not know that what she called faith was often fear. She did not know that what she calle

— however Christmas found you! A little sparkle. A little mischief. And just enough cheer to keep things interesting. ✨ Bells jingling. Lights flickering. Music playing—sometimes soft, sometimes turned up just enough to dance in the kitchen. Fireplaces crackling… or candles doing the heavy lifting. Cookies baking. Wine pouring. Snow falling outside while warmth is made inside— by people, by pets, by quiet rituals, by simply showing up. Busy rooms and quiet corners. Laughter

Telling the Truth at the Pace of Healing I’m writing my story. Not the cleaned-up version. Not the one with tidy lessons or spiritual platitudes layered over unbearable moments. I’m writing the story of what actually happened— in my body, in my faith, in my nervous system, in my relationships. I’m writing it because there are pieces of me that survived by disappearing— and this book is the place they are finally allowed to speak. 🕊️ I didn’t start this book because I wanted

Thanksgiving 2025 Today my heart feels steady, open, and at peace — a kind of peace I fought hard to create. And this morning, I’m sitting in deep gratitude. Not the surface-level gratitude we’re taught to perform… but the kind that rises from a soul that has been stretched, broken open, rebuilt, and reborn. ✨ I’m grateful for growth — the kind that doesn’t just change your life, but transforms your identity. For the moments that felt like endings but were actually portals i

Love is a river that flows in many directions, sometimes converging, sometimes diverging, but always moving forward. When I first dipped my toes into the world of polyamory dynamics, I felt that river’s current pulling me into uncharted waters. It’s a dance of hearts, a symphony of connections, and a tapestry woven with threads of trust, communication, and vulnerability. Today, I want to share what I’ve learned about navigating this beautiful complexity, hoping it lights a pa

On my 55th birthday, I’m celebrating everything these years have taught me —not from books or sermons, but from heartbreak, healing, and holy becoming. ✨I’ve learned that aging is not an ending — it’s an unveiling. Each year strips away what was never me, leaving only what’s real, raw, and radiant. 🔥I’ve learned that a woman fully in her power is medicine —not just for herself, but for everyone who has ever been told to dim their light. 🌿I’ve learned that sensuality and spi

There’s something holy about the way humans come alive when they feel seen. Not looked at. Not evaluated. Not compared. But truly seen. 👁️✨ When someone meets your eyes and doesn’t flinch… when they let your story exist without trying to fix or analyze it— that’s when something sacred begins to unfold. 💫 The Power of Presence We live in a world where people are starving for that kind of presence. Most of us learned to perform instead of reveal, to manage impressi

It’s ironic, isn’t it? To say, “We're not here to perform,” after literally filming a reality show about our lives. Cameras in our...

Shame is one of the most destructive forces we carry in our bodies and our spirits. Unlike guilt—which says “I did something wrong”...

There are words that don’t just inspire—they awaken. 🌟Helen Keller’s reminder that “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all”...

I used to believe love was about keeping people close—so close that I didn’t lose them. I thought love meant control, sacrifice, and...

When the three of us first said yes to this journey, we didn’t fully know what we were stepping into. There isn’t a handbook for how to...

Adventure has become one of our love languages. Not just the big, flashy moments— but the quiet, intentional choices to lean into life...

We live in a world that worships perfection. 📸 Perfect smiles and perfect bodies. ✨ Perfect homes. 💍 Perfect marriages. And somewhere...

I get this question a lot: “Why share so much? Why not just keep it private?” I understand the wondering. For generations, we’ve been...