💞 No One Gets Left Behind: Agreements That Anchor Love

Love, when it’s real, asks us to show up with more than just our hearts—it asks us to bring our wholeness. And when that love expands beyond two people, the need for intention becomes even more sacred. 🌿

In our throuple, we’ve experienced breathtaking joy, soul-deep intimacy, and moments of magic that feel like the universe winking at us.

✨ But we’ve also faced insecurities, old wounds, and tender fears of being too much—or not enough—for the people we love most.

Recently, the three of us sat down in the rawness of some of those hard conversations. We each had to look inward and ask:

👉 What am I afraid of?

👉 What do I need to feel safe, loved, and included?

👉 And how do we create a love where no one feels like the third wheel or the odd one out?

The answers weren’t easy, but they were honest.And what came from that honest space was a shared desire to build love differently—to anchor our connection not in comparison or fear, but in care and consciousness.

So we created a set of agreements—not rules or restrictions—but living truths that we can return to when things feel shaky or uncertain. 🌀

These are the anchors of our triad. The intentions that make sure: no one gets left behind.

🌺 Our Grounding Agreements

🫶 We honor each unique connection.Each relationship in our triad is real and important. We don’t compete—we coexist, celebrate, and nurture the bonds that make us whole.

🗣 We name our needs with softness and courage.We don’t expect each other to read minds. We believe our needs are valid and speak them with love, not shame.

🕊 We speak with honesty, not urgency.Hard conversations are part of intimacy. We choose patience over panic, clarity over chaos.

🤝 We check in before we check out.If something feels off, we lean in rather than pulling away. Vulnerability is our bridge back to each other.

🛡 We co-create safety.Each of us is responsible for our healing, but we choose to be safe places for one another—emotionally, physically, spiritually.

🔥 We welcome joy without guilt.We let passion and connection be what they are without shame. When love flows, we don’t fear it—we honor it.

⚖️ We balance naturally and intentionally.Love doesn’t have to look equal every day—but we remain committed to restoring harmony when someone feels out of sync.

🌌 We celebrate the whole.Our triad is not a series of private connections—it’s a living, breathing ecosystem. We cherish the uniqueness of each bond and the beauty of the collective.

These agreements are not a cage—they’re a container.A safe, strong, ever-evolving space where each of us can breathe, bloom, and belong. 🌼

And here’s the thing: you don’t have to be in a throuple to need this kind of clarity. Every relationship—monogamous, open, platonic, romantic, familial—can benefit from spoken truths and sacred agreements. 💫

Because love, at its healthiest, isn’t accidental.It’s chosen.It’s tended.It’s built—brick by vulnerable brick.

And when it’s built with intention…💞 No one gets left behind.

✨ Reflection Questions

🌀 Where in your relationships are you relying on assumptions instead of agreements?

💌 What does “being chosen” look like for you—and are you experiencing that?

🪷 What’s one agreement you could introduce that would help you feel more secure and seen?

🧠 Empowering Truth Statements

🌟 I am worthy of a love that honors my needs and celebrates my presence.

🌟 Sacred love requires conscious care—and I am capable of giving and receiving it.

🌟 I do not have to compete to belong. I already belong.

🌟 When we build from truth, love becomes a sanctuary—not a battlefield.

🌟 I can create agreements that protect my peace and nurture connection.

With wild love, sacred intention, and the courage to build something beautifully different—

✨ Yours, Mine & Ours